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Not Just A Wishful Thinking #BarAThon Challenge Day #6


After a very long waiting, we had a chance to discuss many family matters over a cup of hot coffee during his vacation last month. We shared, recollected, cherished and planned about many things in our life. We are extremely happy that we have created every second of our life as we desired.

We two started our family life, not like others with some lovely dreams. We started our family with personal loans, instalments and family debts. So we dreamt not about our honeymoon, not about surprise gifts, not about romantic date nights but we too had our own style of dreams. Once we got engaged, we discussed many things and we listed some priorities for the first five years of our marriage. We made our 5 Year Marriage Vision as :

  1. In spite of all our personal difficulties, we should support our both families.
  2. We should pay all our EMI within the deadline to avoid penalties.
  3. We should complete our post graduation.
  4. We should work hard to make our child’s dream come true.
  5. Within 5 years, we should own our house and a car.

With loans and debts, our dreams happened to be a Wishful Thinking.But our passion and love kept the flame burning. Now we are so happy and proud that our dreams were not just a wishful thinking but a reality.  I love this quote very much and am sharing with you to make your dreams also come true.

Image Courtesy : Infinitheism

What do you think about Wishful Thinking ??? Have your dreams come true ??? Share your interesting stories with us ….🙂🙂🙂

P.S : We bought our first  ( second-hand ) car during our second year, our house in fourth year, completed my ME in fifth year, Vivek completed his MBA in fourth year and cleared all our loans taken for marriage within five years. We dreamt not just a wishful thinking.

Submitting this post for #BarAThon hosted by Blog-A-Rhythm. Today, Day #6 prompt is Wishful Thinking.  I’m a part of team Blue Lagoon. Enjoy the other posts or happily participate here.


Don’t miss to read my other posts for the challenge :

Day 1 : Untold Story Of My Brother

Day 2 : What You Don’t Know My Love

Day 3 : It’s Time To Move On

Day 4 : Hey, It’s Ok Amma !!!

Day 5 : Nostalgic Notes From A Mommy Diary


Author: Vasantha Vivek

I am Vasantha Vivek. A happy woman, daughter, sister, wife, mother, teacher, friend, mentor, seeker, lover …….I enjoy reading and writing very much … I start & end my days with reading … Now I started writing also … so come …My Sweet Nothings …

15 thoughts on “Not Just A Wishful Thinking #BarAThon Challenge Day #6

  1. Lovely post Vasantha. Your plan and achieving it with love and determination is commendable. Be blessed.

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  2. Lovely post Vasantha. Planning more realistically and struggling the initial years is perhaps the best decision you guys took. Look now, its a better future for your sun and you did travel a lot too.

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  3. Congratulations for turning your dreams into reality. The first few years are always a bit of a struggle but you guys handled it very maturely.

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  4. Wow 🙏🏻 love it!!!
    I liked the idea of supporting BOTH the families which is rare these days!!

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  5. Wow! That must be such a proud feeling, isn’t it?
    Super happy to learn this about you!


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  6. Pingback: Hearthful Of Promises #BarAThon Challenge Day #7 | My Sweet Nothings

  7. It’s fantastic that all your dreams and goals are now a reality. I can understand the feeling of pride and satisfaction! Well done!

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  8. You must be feeling so proud Vasantha… Thanks for the inspiring quote.

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